From yesterday…
From today’s walk…
The Woman I Want/To Be :: Essays On Attention Paid(https://essaysonattentionpaid.com/2023/07/25/090000.html)
As I look through the images I am sharing in this post, I can see that the concept of womanhood they present is very feminine and not just a little sexy. I don’t, however, come to it from the proposition that women who might inhabit these clothes are required to fulfill an idea of womanhood that the dominant heterosexual culture seeks to enforce. The womanhood I imagine would inhabit this clothing with an intelligent, goddess-like presence, full of confidence, self-possession and sexual power.
The Woman I Want/To Be :: Essays On Attention Paid
In The Second Sex, Simone de Beauvoir makes a compelling case that gender is a social construct. The social landscape we are raised in has a profound effect on what womanhood and manhood are conceived to be and how we conceive of ourselves as men and women.
The World’s Real Queer - by Rhyd Wildermuth
What I mean to say is that the world has always been a thing of unpredictable wonder and utter strangeness, but we stopped noticing it because we got too comfortable. Like a lover, who is really a strange and fucking wonderfully unknowable person, but we stopped noticing all that. Then, suddenly, they do something we didn’t expect or predict, and we’re thrown off, confused, afraid they’ve changed, afraid they don’t love us.
The World’s Real Queer - by Rhyd Wildermuth
We all have pronouns. We all have sex. We all dress funny. We all think we’re different. None of that’s queer, that’s just fucking normal.
July 26, 2023 - by Heather Cox Richardson
And therein lies a huge problem for today’s Republican Party. A recent poll of young voters shows they care deeply about gun violence, economic inequality, LGBTQ+ rights, and climate change. All of those issues are only becoming more prominent.
July 26, 2023 - by Heather Cox Richardson
Former vice president Mike Pence, who is running for the 2024 Republican presidential nomination, today unveiled his economic proposal. It calls for eliminating the Environmental Protection Agency and the Biden administration’s incentives designed to address climate change.
The Woman I Want/To Be :: Essays On Attention Paid
> I have read more than a few books written by women about the experience of being woman. Caliban and the Witch, by Silvia Federici; Three Women, by Lisa Taddeo; Catcalling by Soho Lee; Girlhood by Melissa Febos; The Second Sex, by Simone de Beauvoir; Down Girl, by Kate Manne; Radical Homemakers, by Shannon Hayes.
The Woman I Want/To Be :: Essays On Attention Paid
> I have been photographing women’s clothing displays in shop widows for years. I am in love with womanhood. I am in love with womanhood in two ways. First, and dominantly, I am in love with womanhood in the way you would expect my male lizard brain to be. I am in love with womanhood as a receptive place where my sexual longings can come to repose.
About Barbie. Not sorry I went to see but mixed feelings. Funny and touching in places. Well crafted, acted and directed. Critique of patriarchy (and matriarchy), not satisfying. And the discovery Barbie made on her hero’s journey? She’d rather be in the complex real world, grow old, die? Hmmmm.
“… no one is more arrogant toward women, more aggressive or more disdainful, than a man anxious about his own virility.”
— The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir a.co/gl8cTQL
Becoming a woman: The gender theories of Simone de Beauvoir - Rewriting The Rules
One is not born, but rather one becomes, a woman.
—Simone de Beauvoir
Here she is arguing, from autobiographical experience and from the available evidence at the time, that the things associated with womenhood (such as being passive, concerned with appearance, childlike and in need of protection, and wanting to care for others) are imposed upon women by society rather than being innate characteristics they are born with.
Sitting here waiting for the end of Open Studios. Been a good day. Decent number of visitors. A couple of sales with another possible. And this photo which I’ve been thinking all afternoon I should take and finally did…
I discovered this morning that one can have multiple links in their Instagram profile. When did that change?! Probably years ago. That’s how long I have been largely absent from the platform.