So amazing to see two such amazing women as Liz Cheney and Kamala Harris working together to save our country!
When we intentionally strive to make our homes places where we are ready to give and receive love, every object we place there enhances our well-being. (bell hooks, All About Love)
This actually gives me a bit of hope about the political situation… the idea that union and division need each other suggests if not blown apart, union will move in to displace the division with cooperation…
Hegel made the important point that sameness and difference, unity and division, have themselves to be unified; this seems to me from experience clearly right. Note this suggests the ultimate priority of the principle of union over that of division, despite the necessary part played by division at one stage of the process. (Iain McGilchrist, The Matter With Things)
Greed is rightly considered a “deadly sin” because it erodes the moral values that encourage us to care for the common good. Greed violates the spirit of connectedness and community that is natural to human survival. It wipes out individual recognition of the needs and concerns of everyone, replacing this awareness with harmful self-centeredness. Healthy narcissism (the self-acceptance, self-worth, that is the cornerstone of self-love) is replaced by a pathological narcissism (wherein only the self matters) that justifies any action that enables the satisfying of desires. (bell hooks, All About Love)
The will to sacrifice on behalf of another, always present when there is love, is annihilated by greed. (bell hooks, All About Love)
… when we are deeply imbedded in an economic system that is all about greed and exploitation, does love stand a chance?…
However, emotion is a critical part of our capacity to comprehend the world at all, the ability to understand and interact with other living beings. Without it we are foolish, however much we may know, and we are only alive in a diminished sense of the word. (Iain McGilchrist, The Matter With Things)
Curiosity as an Instrument of Love: Thoreau and the Little Owl – The Marginalian
It is only when we cede emotional attachment that we can be truly free from judgment, for all judgment is feeling — usually some species of fear — masquerading as thought. And when we judge, we cannot understand. True curiosity is therefore a form of love, because, as the great Zen teacher Thich Nhat Hanh so plainly and poignantly put it, “understanding is love’s other name.”
… all up to date on COVID and Flu shots…
… feeling a little sad and lethargic today…
… standing in line at the local bagel shop, i noticed a woman with the most wonderful chromium blue nails… i complimented her on her nails and showed her my chromium orange/red nails… we talked nails for a bit… then we talked about how long we have lived in Beacon… me, for almost 20 years, she, since 2021 as a refugee from the pandemic… i was wearing one of my favorite dresses and an orange red lipstick to match my nails… i was in full fem mode… it was wonderful to have such a normal and natural feminine to feminine conversation…
Love is Central
Dialogue cannot exist, however, in the absence of profound love for the world and for women and men. The naming of the world, which is an act of creation and re-creation, is not possible if it is not infused with love. Love is at the same time the foundation of dialogue and dialogue itself. It is thus necessarily the task of responsible subjects and cannot exist in a relation of domination. (bell hooks, Feminist Theory)
What is required is an attentive response to something real and other than ourselves, of which we have only inklings at first, but which comes more and more into being through our response to it – if we are truly responsive to it. We nurture it into being; or not. In this it has something of the structure of love. (Iain McGilchrist, The Matter With Things)
… these two highlights appeared in my daily Readwise review… it is so interesting when two amazing authors writing from different perspectives arrive at the same clearing in the metaphorical woods… a sign we should pay close attention… love may not be all you need, but it is central to a deeply satisfying presence in the cosmos…
Fear of Dying
At a much more mundane level, is it not the fantasy of modern man – and woman – to defy time? Puritan diets, punitive exercise regimes, hair transplants, plastic surgery, cryogenics? An embargo on serious conversation about the fact that we are all born to die – quite soon? And that the meaning of life lies in its quality, not its quantity? Time and death are, it seems, our constant sources of anxiety and fear. (Iain McGilchrist, The Matter With Things)
Death is among us. To see it always and only as a negative subject is to lose sight of its power to enhance every moment. (bell hooks, All About Love)
… in recent years, and particularly since moving into feminine expression, i have become less afraid of death… even as i move closer to it…
… i am less worried about what lurks behind every anomolas change in my body…
… not really freaked out at all…
… can i attribute this, at least in part, to the completeness i am finding as i let my feminine blossom?…
… i think so…
something weird related to my account going on… @help
50 please vote cards down, 50 more to go…
The anonymous authors of Women and the New World suggest that wages for housework is “a proposal that takes us even further down the road of capitalism since it brings us into the marketplace and puts a price on activities which should fulfill human needs and not just economic independence for women.” (bell hooks, Feminist Theory)
… how do we value work?… by the good it does and the bad it doesn’t do… how much of the work done under capitalism would be highly valued by this standard?…