… last night H told me L might come out while we are on BI, something about seeing M, a friend, who will be on the island too… H told me about an evening out with the two of them and feeling like a third wheel… it got me to thinking that we need to find ways to have adventures, do some actual planning and execution… i don’t mind my and our daily routines, but one needs to break out of them now and again, do something non routine, confirm you are alive… the reason we don’t is that they always seem to require planning that neither H nor I can overcome inertia to do, except in certain circumstances, like picking up a new dog… that was our last adventure, Fiona at the start of the pandemic…